The Lesser-Known Symptoms of Menopause: You're Not Crazy, It’s Just Perimenopause
Anna Harrelson • February 10, 2025

Unraveling the Mystery of Menopause: The Symptoms No One Warned You About

Hot flashes and night sweats get all the attention when it comes to menopause, but what about the symptoms that no one warns you about? The ones that leave you wondering if you have 27 different diagnoses when, in reality, it’s all just perimenopause? If you’ve been feeling off and struggling to connect the dots, you’re not alone. Let’s break down some of the lesser-known symptoms of perimenopause and menopause, why they happen, and what you can do about them.

The Wild Ride of Hormonal Shifts: It’s Not Just Declining Estrogen

Before we dive in, let’s get one thing straight: menopause symptoms aren’t just about a steady decline in estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone. It’s the erratic, unpredictable rollercoaster of hormonal shifts during perimenopause that wreaks the most havoc. Many symptoms that peak during perimenopause stabilize once estrogen levels even out after menopause. However, that doesn’t mean they disappear completely—even with menopausal hormone therapy (MHT), some symptoms persist, just with less intensity.

The Symptoms No One Talks About (But We Should)

1. Breast Size Changes

Your breasts might feel fuller, lumpier, or even shrink as estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate. Many women notice that their cup size changes due to changes in breast tissue composition and fat distribution. Tenderness is also common, especially in perimenopause when hormone levels are fluctuating wildly.

2. Burning Mouth Syndrome

Yes, this is a real thing. Some women experience a burning sensation in their tongue, lips, or gums, likely due to declining estrogen affecting nerve function and saliva production.

3. Electric Shock Sensations

Ever felt like you’re being zapped by an invisible force? Sudden, brief electrical shock sensations are a weird but real symptom of menopause, thought to be linked to nerve instability caused by estrogen fluctuations.

4. Skin Crawling and Itchiness

If your skin suddenly feels like bugs are crawling on it, or you’re itching more than usual, fluctuating estrogen could be to blame. Estrogen plays a role in collagen production and skin hydration, so its decline can cause dryness, sensitivity, and that creepy-crawly feeling.

5. Digestive Issues

Bloating, gas, changes in bowel habits—estrogen and progesterone directly impact gut motility, microbiome balance, and inflammation. Perimenopause often brings IBS-like symptoms that settle once hormone levels stabilize.

6. Bladder and Urethral Symptoms

Frequent UTIs, urgency, or even a weird tingling sensation in your urethra? The bladder and urethra are estrogen-sensitive tissues, so they can become irritated, dry, and inflamed with hormone changes.

7. Body Odor Changes

Some women notice their scent changes, even if they haven’t switched deodorants. Shifts in hormone levels affect sweat gland activity, sometimes making body odor stronger or just different.

8. Tinnitus (Ringing in the Ears)

Fluctuations in estrogen impact circulation and nerve function, which can contribute to ringing or buzzing in the ears.

9. Increased Histamine Sensitivity

Ever feel like your allergies are suddenly worse? Estrogen affects mast cells, which are responsible for histamine release. Fluctuating estrogen can make you more prone to hives, flushing, and histamine-related reactions.

10. Anxiety and Sudden Panic Attacks

You were never an anxious person before, so why does it feel like you’re constantly on edge? Estrogen directly impacts neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, and when it swings wildly, so does your mood.

11. Joint Pain and Stiffness

Estrogen has anti-inflammatory properties, so its decline contributes to increased joint pain, stiffness, and even the onset of inflammatory conditions like frozen shoulder.

How Hormone Therapy and Lifestyle Changes Can Help

While many of these symptoms improve as hormones stabilize, the reality is that you don’t have to suffer through them without support. Let’s talk about what actually helps.

Menopausal Hormone Therapy (MHT): Replacing estrogen, progesterone, and even testosterone can help significantly with many of these symptoms, especially those related to nerve function, skin, and bladder health. However, MHT won’t make all symptoms vanish overnight—it’s about stabilizing the hormonal rollercoaster and reducing severity.

Oral Contraceptives for Perimenopause: If you’re still cycling and experiencing extreme symptom fluctuations, oral contraceptives can suppress ovulation and override hormonal chaos, making symptoms much more manageable.

Lifestyle Adjustments That Matter:

Anti-Inflammatory Diet: Eating whole, nutrient-dense foods supports gut health, reduces histamine sensitivity, and minimizes inflammation that contributes to joint pain and digestive issues.

Strength Training & Movement: Regular exercise helps with joint pain, muscle loss, and hormone balance. Strength training in particular helps combat estrogen-related muscle deterioration.

Hydration & Electrolyte Balance: Dehydration can make symptoms like dizziness, joint pain, and histamine intolerance worse.

Stress Management & Sleep Hygiene: Poor sleep and chronic stress exacerbate many menopause symptoms. Prioritizing rest and relaxation is crucial.

You’re Not Broken—You’re in Perimenopause

If you’ve been dismissed by doctors, told your symptoms are unrelated, or prescribed multiple medications for what is actually a single hormonal transition, know this: you are not alone. Perimenopause and menopause can make you feel like a stranger in your own body, but there is hope. Understanding what’s happening and having a plan—whether that includes MHT, lifestyle modifications, or a combination of both—can make all the difference.

If you’re struggling and want personalized support, I’m here to help. Let’s work together to navigate this transition with clarity, confidence, and solutions that actually make a difference in your life. Because you deserve to feel like you again.

WonderCreek Health Blog

By Anna Harrelson July 12, 2025
You know how people say, "Just drink some water and take a magnesium supplement" like it’s the answer to everything? Well… they’re not totally wrong. But like most good advice, the devil is in the details. Magnesium is one of the most essential minerals in the body, involved in over 300 enzymatic reactions , yet it remains one of the most commonly overlooked deficiencies in midlife women. And no, your annual bloodwork probably didn’t catch it. So What Does Magnesium Actually Do? Think of magnesium as a multitasking background assistant—it keeps the lights on and the gears turning across nearly every body system: Brain & Mood: Regulates GABA and NMDA receptors, supporting calm, focus, and resilience against anxiety and overstimulation. Muscles: Prevents cramping and twitching, supports strength and recovery, and reduces restless legs. Sleep: Plays a role in melatonin production and nervous system regulation. Bowel Function: Helps pull water into the colon to prevent constipation. Cardiovascular Health: Regulates blood pressure and helps with vasodilation. Hormone Balance: Assists in estrogen metabolism and combats insulin resistance. In short: if you’re exhausted, bloated, moody, foggy, tense, or irregular in your gut or cycle—magnesium deserves a spot on your radar. Why Is Magnesium So Important in Midlife? Estrogen and progesterone both influence magnesium levels. As hormone levels decline or fluctuate during perimenopause and menopause, so does your ability to retain and utilize magnesium. Add to that: Chronic stress (which depletes magnesium) Modern diets (often low in magnesium-rich whole foods) Medications like PPIs, diuretics, or certain antibiotics High caffeine, sugar, or alcohol intake (all increase magnesium excretion) And suddenly, a " borderline magnesium issue " becomes a perfect storm. Why Your Blood Test Might Not Show It Serum magnesium tests only reflect ~1% of total body magnesium. Most magnesium is stored in bone and tissue. So it’s very possible to have "normal labs" and still be clinically deficient. In practice, we go by symptoms, risk factors, and therapeutic response. Common Signs of Suboptimal Magnesium Trouble falling or staying asleep Anxiety or nervous system overactivation Fatigue or burnout that doesn’t resolve with rest Muscle cramps, spasms, or eye twitches Constipation Menstrual migraines or tension headaches Joint stiffness or tightness Sugar cravings or blood sugar crashes Best Food Sources of Magnesium Magnesium-rich foods include: Dark leafy greens (spinach, chard) Nuts and seeds (especially pumpkin seeds and almonds) Avocados Legumes Dark chocolate (yes, really!) Whole grains like quinoa and oats That said, many of us still fall short even with a healthy diet, especially during high-stress seasons or if absorption is impaired. Supplements: Which Type of Magnesium Is Best? Not all magnesium is created equal. Here are the forms we most often recommend: Magnesium Glycinate: Best for sleep, anxiety, and muscle relaxation. Gentle on the stomach.** Magnesium Citrate: Useful for constipation, but can cause loose stools at higher doses. Magnesium Threonate: May support cognitive function and brain health. Magnesium Malate: Good for energy and muscle pain, often used in fibromyalgia. We generally avoid magnesium oxide unless constipation is the only concern, as it’s poorly absorbed. **Mag Glycinate is generally my go to recommendation and what we take at our house Also, BLENDS can be good- but generally more expensive Dosing & Timing Most women benefit from 200–400 mg daily, depending on needs. Take it in the evening if you're targeting sleep or relaxation. Divide doses if taking more than 300 mg (e.g. AM + PM). Always start low and go slow, especially with citrate forms to avoid urgent bathroom visits. Final Thoughts If magnesium had better marketing, it would be a top-tier wellness darling. But because it’s quiet, essential, and boring on paper, we tend to overlook it. Yet for so many midlife women, magnesium is the missing link that helps all the other systems and strategies finally click. So if you're doing "everything right" and still feel off? It might be time to start taking magnesium!
By Anna Harrelson July 12, 2025
"Is Ozempic safe?" "Do I have to be diabetic to use it?" "Will I regain weight if I stop?" "I eat well, lift weights, sleep, take hormones—and I still can't lose weight. What's going on?" These are some of the most common questions I hear from women in midlife. And they’re incredibly valid. For decades, the conversation around weight and health has been riddled with shame, assumptions, and surface-level advice. But we’re finally shifting into a new era—one that recognizes obesity as a chronic, complex disease, not a personal failure. One that looks at metabolism through the lens of hormones, inflammation, genetics, stress, and brain chemistry, not just calories in and out. And at the center of this shift is an exciting class of medications known as GLP-1 receptor agonists. What Are GLP-1 Medications? GLP-1 stands for glucagon-like peptide-1, a hormone your body naturally produces in the gut. It helps regulate blood sugar, insulin, and satiety (your sense of fullness). GLP-1s also slow gastric emptying and signal your brain to reduce appetite. Medications like semaglutide (Ozempic, Wegovy), liraglutide (Saxenda, Victoza), and tirzepatide (Mounjaro) mimic this hormone and have been revolutionary for treating type 2 diabetes—and more recently, for metabolic syndrome and obesity. These drugs are not stimulants or fad diet tools. They are hormone-based medications with powerful metabolic and anti-inflammatory effects. Why Are GLP-1s So Relevant for Midlife Women? Midlife is a time of massive hormonal transition. Estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone levels shift dramatically in perimenopause and menopause. This impacts insulin sensitivity, body composition, lipid metabolism, sleep, inflammation, and brain function. Even women who have optimized their lifestyle—dialing in nutrition, strength training, sleep, and hormone therapy—may find themselves stuck. GLP-1 medications can be the missing piece for women who: Have insulin resistance or prediabetes that isn’t budging with lifestyle alone Carry weight disproportionately in the visceral (abdominal) area Are at increased cardiovascular risk due to family history, labs, or existing conditions Are experiencing significant inflammation or joint pain related to metabolic dysfunction Have a history of PCOS or gestational diabetes Are postmenopausal and noticing rapid changes in weight or metabolism These medications work synergistically with hormone therapy and can reduce inflammation, improve insulin sensitivity, and help shift body composition. For some women, they are as life-changing as starting estrogen. It’s Not Just About Weight Loss GLP-1s are being studied for NAFLD (fatty liver), cardiovascular protection, neurodegenerative disease, PCOS, and even addiction and mood regulation. The benefits go far beyond the scale. That said, when stubborn weight is a major barrier to living fully—whether due to physical discomfort, comorbidities, or psychological toll—helping a woman reduce weight safely and effectively can open the door to movement, joy, and hope. So, Who Should Consider a GLP-1? I don’t believe in prescribing these meds as a first-line for someone who hasn’t addressed the basics. That’s not judgment—it’s strategy. If you haven’t worked on: Blood sugar balance through real food Resistance training and daily movement Addressing sleep and circadian rhythms Managing stress and nervous system regulation Optimizing hormones, micronutrients, and gut health … then you’re not giving yourself the best shot at lasting change. But if you have done the work and still feel like your body is working against you—or you have serious metabolic risk factors— then GLP-1 therapy might be a wise and evidence-based next step. Some women use it briefly to reset. Others may need it long-term, just like hormone therapy. It’s not a crutch. It’s a tool. And for the right woman, it can be life-changing. Common Questions I Hear "Will I gain the weight back if I stop?" Maybe—but not always. If the lifestyle foundations are in place, many women maintain progress even after discontinuing. But some women have chronic conditions that benefit from ongoing use. That’s not failure—that’s biology. "Are there side effects?" Yes. The most common are nausea, constipation, or bloating early on. Starting slow, staying hydrated, and eating smaller portions helps. Rare but serious risks exist, including pancreatitis. A good clinician will walk you through these carefully. "Will I lose muscle?" You can—unless you’re strength training and eating enough protein. We talk a lot about this at Wondercreek. Protecting lean muscle is critical. "Is this forever?" Not necessarily. Some women use these meds to reduce inflammation, restore insulin sensitivity, and break a cycle. Others stay on them longer due to underlying metabolic dysfunction. Every plan is individualized. Final Thoughts GLP-1 medications aren’t for everyone. But they are not cheating, shameful, or lazy. They’re a legitimate, science-based treatment for a serious, chronic condition. In my practice, we focus on healthspan—not just lifespans. That means preserving function, preventing disease, and helping you feel energized, sharp, and resilient for as long as possible. For some women, GLP-1 therapy is one of the most powerful tools we have to get there.